We are all destined to become something in this world.
From a very young age, we begin to dream enthusiastically of what we will be when we are older. As time changes, our dreams change too. Self-awareness reveals our abilities, and it leads us to change our goals
Few people really stick to their childhood dreams. Many people give up just before the realization stage for various reasons. This stage of life depends on certain factors such as your influences and your environment.
Sometimes what we believe to be our destiny turns out to be not. We don’t reach our destiny – at least not destiny we thought we were made for.
So how do you deal with this feeling of failure? How can we adjust our focus after failure in order to reset and plan to achieve other goals?
No need to worry, there are certain times when it’s okay to gracefully step back from the big race of your dreams.
The universe, or maybe something inside of you, knows when it’s time to seek a new destiny.
Five signs from the universe that it’s time to find a new destiny
1. You stop believing in yourself.
You can only get things done, against all odds, if you believe in yourself. You must always have faith in your potential and your ability to achieve what some people think is impossible. When you stop believing in your abilities, you look to others to motivate you to perform. Not everyone around you is capable or will do this heavy work.
Nothing in life is guaranteed, not even the people around you. When you dare to dream, you have to understand that dreams don’t work like that. Others will only believe in you if you continue to believe that you can.
If you feel you can, only then can you achieve your dreams.
2. You feel that the path does not lead to guaranteed success.
Your results are a by-product of the process. Ideally, you should enjoy the trip and not think too much about the destination. Most people over-believe in the outcome and in doing so push their dreams away.
When you invest in anything, some risk is still involved. The goals and the path to achieving that dream work like this. Nothing is certain about this.
On the contrary, uncertainty makes the journey full of excitement. However, it is the fear attached to this uncertainty that causes people to stop chasing their dreams.
3. You lose discipline in life.
To make your dream come true, you need to be disciplined. When you fail to maintain discipline in your life, at some point you have to let go of your life goals. You may have started the journey in a rigorously disciplined way.
Yet, somewhere between your starting and ending points, you need to gain more focus, determination, and discipline. The lack of all these qualities led to your downfall and inability to pursue your dream.
4. You are bored with your pursuit.
In this life journey, you can keep trying without fear of failure. Let’s take a simple example. If you stop running in a race, you cannot win a race. You must understand that you cannot stop while pursuing your goal.
Some people stop pursuing their dreams because they get bored with the process. This boredom comes from the inability to reinvent oneself. People stop their persuasion, which is the sad reality of the world.
Roadblocks will keep coming your way, changing the path. Many people fail to change and end up frustrated with the unpredictable nature of travel. Thus, the journey ends, or the destination simply changes out of boredom.
5. You feel that others will not appreciate your dreams.
Most people fail to make others understand what they want out of life. This inability to express their opinion leads them to doubt their own dreams.
Also, what other people will think of their goals and what will make your friends and family happy often keeps people from valuing their dreams. It won’t guarantee anything but an unhappy feeling. Let people misunderstand your goals, but don’t let others decide your fate.
A person who fears being misunderstood often lets others prove them wrong rather than being misunderstood.
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Suppose you have already entered this phase where you are fully ready for a fresh start. In this case, you must first reduce the old baggage of pain and suffering.
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You can let go of your old dreams to embrace new ones in the following way.
1. Let your dream die peacefully so that a new path to destiny can emerge
Clinging to things will make your life more difficult. Learning to let go of things, including your dreams, would be best.
Once you realize the dream will never be a reality and you can’t live your dream life, bury it deep in your mind. Let your dream die and channel that rage of unfulfilling desire into achieving your future goals.
2. Stop remembering your old dream
Once we sacrifice our old dream, we keep mentioning it here and there. If you keep checking your old dream, it will haunt you. So stop and do your best to forget your old dream.
3. Keep actively moving towards your new dream.
Dreams are nothing but your own idea. Just like a human child, you have to constantly feed it. You will slowly become interested in this field if you continue to feed it regularly. Simultaneously, you will also begin to lose interest in your old dream.
Sidhharrth Kumaar is an astro-numerologist and founder of NumroVani. He combines his knowledge of occult and modern sciences to solve real-world problems in the areas of mental well-being and relationship growth.
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